Just as a thirsty man in the desert under the hot sun values water more than a heap of pearls and diamonds placed before him, so also, a true lover of God wants him alone, and considers every other object as a trifle before him. The real lover desires no name, fame or money, but his beloved. He who does not possess such an attribute is a man full of self-interest.

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If you really want to live a life of love and service and when you really have that want, you will not need to worry how to lead that life – you will live it.